For more people than one might imagine, cruising is one of the most exciting sexual fantasies. While traditionally linked to male homosexuality, the practice is spreading among other groups.

After all, who hasn’t felt an uncontrollable desire to have sex with a stranger who, with eyes or body language, tries to convey their uncontrollable interest in you?
By definition, cruising is the act of seeking sex with strangers in public or semi-public environments such as parks, beaches, public toilets in train stations, buses, airports, etc … It wakes up a deeply primal interest, and allows for casual yet intense seduction. The contact is fast and loose and the risk involved in the practice makes it even more exciting.
Perhaps our education, which instils in us with all sorts of hang-ups about what we can and can’t do sexually, is exactly the reason we find such “forbidden” acts so exciting. In succumbing to them it’s as if we are possessed by an alter ego above our learned moral norms. We love to break certain barriers, sometimes also motivated by simple curiosity.
All that being said, I’d like to encourage responsible cruising, which if you think about is undoubtedly a more healthy manner to channel ones sexual urges than through the virtual channels of chat and dating sites. This virtual world is so often built on lies, and prone to create disappointment and frustration when users are faced with the large gap between the limitless reality created on the computer and the constraints imposed by the physical and psychic realities in which we live.
So if you do not want surprises Get out there and meet people face to face. Make use of cruising, but keep in mind certain concepts and basic precautions:
1 Cruising and public nudity are legal in Spain. The only exceptions are around children or mentally handicapped people (Article 185 of Criminal Code).
2 You could be the victim of a robbery. Use common sense and never leave belongings unattended. It would be best not to take anything of value with you.
3 Be discreet. You are in a public space and not everyone has the same intentions as you do. Choose to cruise at times when you’re not going to bother others.
4 Be clean. Nobody has to pick up your condoms, lubricant, or dirty tissues: that’s your responsibility.
5 Be careful. Some cruising areas can be dangerous on windy days or because of their conditions: ruined buildings, undeveloped underpasses, cliffs, etc …
6 And, of course, think about sexually transmitted diseases. If you stick to masturbation or penetration with a condom it is almost impossible to happen to catch anything even if you tend to be very promiscuous.
If you fancy a little bit of cruising, keep in mind that most sexually oriented city guides can inform you about the most common cruising areas in a city. One great place to give it a try is in Spain and liberal culture may make for some hot nights out. Rent apartments in Valencia and go out for a cruise…
















