2009 December
Dec 31

The first rays of sunshine are searching their way trough the window and are illuminating your face; beautiful birds singing in your ears; the pillow is so soft especially today… don’t open your eyes, because your idyllic perception doesn’t correspond to reality: a face smeared with make-up, dark rings under the eyes, an unpleasant smell of beer, sweat and cigarettes and the most horrible thing: Who is the hell is this person lying next to me and where am I anyway? The morning after, welcome back to reality!

The morning after

It´s already known that today’s society of the 21st century is marked by divorces, a low birth rate and especially record numbers of singles. Hence the number of the so feared moments of the morning afterwards also increases. After a wild party night, which had a very adventurous end, the first hours in the morning in a more or less sober condition can be very uncomfortable and unpleasant. Whereas there exist, of course, some variations. The best caseis to be in his own house and intent to throw the other person out, in a kind way, of course.. The worst case is to be at a unknown flat and not knowing where the hell to get out of it.

However, a one-night-stand doesn’t mean necessarily that you have to take drugs or drink a lot for having sex with another person. The morning afterwards can be as well very nice, even almost so romantic like the kitschy Hollywood love stories: You’re in bed, turn around and look a the beautiful face of your lover; you even can remember each detail of last night. He or she prepares you a coffee and when you’re very lucky, you even get a whole breakfast. Wow, sounds too good to be real, doesn’t it?

Nowadays there exist uncountable books and studies about this very special next morning. The author Jean-Claude Kaufmann, for example, thinks that this type of “getting to know each other” of the 21st century is the most common beginning of modern relationships. The “we give us time for knowing our real personalities” has become so old-fashioned! The contrasts of a lustful adventure cause the most frequent irritaions. Keywords in this contexts are for example “darkness+beer VS daylight+hangover” or “morning grumpiness VS morning happiness”, etc.. The list of the troubles in the morning seems to be infinite and each one of you can surely tell his or her own story and experience.

But guys, whether nice or horrible mornings afterwards, you always should think about the most important thing: the contraception. If not doing so, this special morning will become a “we are founding our own family”. If you are searching for entertainment, fun and passion, rent the best apartments in Valencia and discover what the city of arts and science has to offer for you.

Dec 21

In western societies any satisfactory sexual relation has a clear and unique purpose: to reach a pleasant and, if possible, long orgasm. No matter whether it is when masturbating or when having sex; the orgasm is so significant in the western world, that some people argue that a relationship without an orgasm is not satisfactory (although it should constitute only a part of the intercourse). Let’s analyze more closely the great world of the orgasm, its myths and its realities.

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All human intercourse is divided into four phases: excitement, culmination, orgasm and resolution. During the orgasm, which is the third phase, both women and men experience muscle spasms, high blood pressure, palpitations, rapid breathing, twitching, and a sudden discharge of sexual tension. But at the end, an orgasm is a very individual experience to which no theory can be applied. Each person feels it differently, and each time it is unique.

One of the biggest mysteries about the orgasm regards to the female orgasm. Is there a vaginal orgasm? It has always been an eternal debate about whether the vaginal orgasms are possible and if so, whether they are different from those obtained by stimulation of the clitoris. Prestigious researchers and sex therapists say there is only one kind of female orgasm, regardless of whether it comes from the clitoris, the vagina or it is a combination of both. In contrast, other researchers argue that women reach three types of orgasms: the vulval, produced by stimulation of the clitoris; the uterus, caused by vaginal or G spot stimulation and the mixed orgasm, produced by a combination of all three. While the experts do not agree on the types of female orgasms, they agree in reducing importance to the orgasm itself and giving more importance to the ability to express and enjoy sexuality as a whole.

But the female orgasm is not the only one that raises doubts, false beliefs or myths. Also the male orgasm is a very complex world to discover. In general, people tend to think that the male orgasm and the ejaculation are the same, but it isn’t. One thing is to ejaculate, and quite another to have an orgasm. This way, it is perfectly possible to have an orgasm without ejaculating, or vice versa. While it is true that the most common thing is that they happen simultaneously, one can learn how to separate them. Hence, it is very common to confuse the two things with the same phenomenon. Another of the misconceptions has to do with the male multiorgasmia. Many people think that immediately after an ejaculation the erection is lost, but it is not. It is perfectly possible to maintain the erection if the excitation does not diminish, so the man is equally capable as that the woman of having coitus after the ejaculation, and even of reaching an orgasm a few minutes later.

Another of the great myths of orgasm is the simultaneous orgasm. Cinema has to take a lot of the blame for this where the couples always seem to climax at the same time.. But in real life, few couples have simultaneous orgasms. This requires a great coordination, a great self-knowledge and also a great knowledge of your partner. Trying to achieve simultaneous orgasms as a rule can bring serious problems to the relationship. However, if it is only a game, it can be very satisfying and exciting.
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Dec 11
I Laugh, You Laugh, He Laughs
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Hey, whether you are happy or not, please smile! Everyone knows that our daily lives are not always full of funny things and that we all have our own problems. For these reasons, you should laugh about 30 times a day, according to the experts. You will not only avoid a permanent serious mask on your face but you’ll enjoy both physical and mental welfare as laughter provides numerous advantages. Life is a tragicomedy in which you play the role of Dr. Humour, whose goal it is to spread the good energy of laughter to others… Let’s smile!

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Around 400 muscles are activated when you laugh: so the torso, the shoulders, the arms, the abdomen, the diaphragm, the legs and stomach all get a little workout. When you laugh, you release endorphins, dopamine, serotonin and adrenaline, a hormone of happiness that removes stress and tension. Laughing has a long list of advantages and it’s totally free, the best thing for this time of crisis! It is so rewarding to see how a baby smiles, or to make a woman laugh to seduce her.

The only negative sign of a laugh is found hidden in our dreams. If you dream that you are laughing, it may mean that something affects you. In fact, the laughter works as a type of escape valve and in our dreams it means that something negative is happening. If you suffer from insomnia, laughter will ease your dream. No matter if it’s fake, spontaneous, shy, sincere or sarcastic; its effects are so powerful that five minutes of giggling are equivalent to 45 minutes of exercise.

If you have to relearn how to laugh – over the years sometimes we lose that spontaneity, laughter therapy courses are a great option. These laughter groups try to awaken the happiness hormones through group exercises and games. It overcomes blockages and takes advantage of a few situations to make us laugh as if we were small children again. Rather than buying wrinkle cream, laugh a lot and try to smile all day long because it’s free, invigorating and rejuvenating.

The prefrontal area of the cerebral cortex is the most evolved and this is where the laughing area is found. According to the experts, it is where creativity along with our ability to think about the future and our morals are located.

Surely a nice weekend break or a relaxing holiday will put that smile back on your face! Go far away with your partner or your friends and forget your everyday worries. Let the good vibes invade your body! Rent apartments in Valencia, they are so comfortable and cheap that your face and your mood will be beaming with joy.