Women worldwide, single, modern or married, all recognize that the hit series “Sex and the City” sometimes reflects our love lives. There are few who do not know Samantha, Carrie, Charlotte or Miranda. Their adventures always give us advice and no detail of modern love, no matter how unseemly, remains undisclosed. In a world where more and more people forget how to enjoy life, “Sex and the City” offers perspective and teaches us how to improve our love life.
The most important thing you need to know is that you need not seek perfection. All relationships are complicated, and Prince Charming does not exist. Charlotte has demonstrated it by searching for the perfect man. The result is always a disappointment.
Opposites attract. You may be looking for love in a person who resembles you, but you are very likely to find it in someone that is totally opposite to you. Miranda, the quintessential logical thinker and serious lawyer, ends up married to a childish waiter.
Sex before marriage is essential. Although there are women who prefer the romantic idea of saving themselves for their future husband, a test drive is always a good idea. It can be quite a tragedy to discover troubling inconsistencies in bed with your partner down the road. Charlotte decided to wait and then found out that she wasn’t compatible with her husband.
You are like you are and do not have to change to make your partner happy. Carrie tried to do so until she realized how unhappy she was living a life that was not hers.
Being alone is not a tragedy and this may be one of the most important lessons of the series. The players proved able to enjoy life with or without a partner.
So now you know! The most important thing is not having a partner, but enjoying the pleasures of life. Rent apartments in Valencia and enjoy sex, shopping and friends. Put into practice the advice of the SATC girls.
July 22nd, 2010 at 9:49 am
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